Remembering the Persecuted

LINK to The Voice of the Martrys website

MMF-bible-tableA story from my kitchen and my kids . . .

“Hey, that’s not fair! You already got one-and-a-half more pieces than me!” Our daughter gave our son a selfish glare, as he proceeded to “stake his claim” by grabbing for the butter and syrup.

As I was working on yet another batch of French toast, I realized our kids definitely needed more than food on their plates. Our family needed a fresh lesson in thankfulness and gratitude. The petty bickering was really bothering me, especially in light of several stories I had read only a few hours earlier. So, while the kids sat on their stools at our kitchen counter, waiting (not so patiently) for our next round of French toast, I proceeded to give a lesson:

We need to be Thankful . . .

“You know, kids, we need to be thankful for what we have, and realize that we have been given so much! Instead of complaining, God wants us to continually live with an attitude of thankfulness and joy.”

“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you” –I Thessalonians 5:18

We don’t have to be thankful for everything (as some temptations and attacks are clearly from the enemy). However, in everything and every situation, we can be thankful and full of praise. God is still on the throne. He is God and He is still worthy of our worship (even at this moment). We can always find something to be thankful for, even for grace to withstand the challenge.

When situations are tough, we can choose to WORSHIP, no matter what. And here’s a specific phrase I often think about when I am feeling distressed or discouraged (and tempted to worry or fear): “God is worthy of my brain-space!”

Let’s Remember the Persecuted Church

“Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.” –Romans 12:15

Just that morning, I had been reading a magazine from The Voice of the Martrys, about how a minister named Richard Wurmbrand had endured persecution while being imprisoned for his faith. He had spent over 14 years in Romanian prisons, including long periods in complete solitude – with no Bible, no books, no scrap paper or pencils, and (obviously) no one to talk to. Even during this horrible time, this man still found ways to be grateful.

The article shared how Rev. Wurmbrand meditated on Scripture he had memorized, and how he (along with other Christian prisoners) kept his mind active by praying fervently throughout the night for various needs from around the world. Yet the example that most-deeply touched my heart was reading about how this man of God learned to rejoice.

For a moment, I put down my spatula and reached for the magazine lying on the counter. “Just listen to this guy’s attitude,” I told my kids. “This man found reasons to be grateful, even in prison, and even when there was absolutely nothing to be thankful for:

“The Bible tells us about one of the great joys we can have,” Rev. Wurmbrand explains, “even in a prison cell: ‘Rejoice with those who rejoice’ (Romans 12:15). I rejoiced that there were families somewhere who gathered with their children, read the Bible together, told jokes, and were happy with each other. Somewhere there was a boy who loved a young girl and dated her; I could be happy about them. There they had a prayer meeting; and there was someone who studied; and there is somebody who enjoyed good food, etc. We could rejoice with those who rejoiced.” –Quote by Richard Wurmbrand, Founder of The Voice of the Martyrs – (from The Triumphant Church, pp.32-33).

Let’s Be Thankful (even when times are tough)

We need to have hearts of gratitude, which means being thankful for even little things that we usually take for granted.

I asked my kids, “When was the last time you were grateful for your toothbrush or toothpaste . . . or for your teeth? Or when was the last time you were thankful for hot running water, or a good toilet?”

That morning, I was also inspired by an example I had read in a little booklet about gratitude, and my kids heard about these as well:

David Brainerd, a devoted missionary to the Native American people, was characterized by a thankful spirit. Even when he had a high fever and great pain, he was thankful that this challenge had come when he was among friends; when he ill and alone in his little hut, he thanked God saying, “Blessed be the Lord, I am not exposed in the open air . . . ”; and in another instance, facing weeks of outdoor solitude, forging through swamps, and enduring dark nights, he thanked God that his loneliness “drove him to experience intimate fellowship with the Lord . . . ” (Example adapted from The Attitude of Gratitude, by Nancy Leigh DeMoss).

By the time the kids had a fresh plate of French toast, they also had a quick lesson in gratitude, and I was feeling better as a mom.

Proverbs 22:6 tells us, “Train up a child in the way he should go”; and in Deuteronomy 6:7, “You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.”

Later, our son came up to me and asked for forgiveness for his attitude; and I could tell he was truly sorry. And our daughter, who just moments ago listened to me read this article, asked me to please tell those of you reading this that she already said she was sorry, and that she’s thankful . . . but actually, her brother was the one who started it.


See more about Global Persecution on Daring Daughters, including recent news from Niger, West Africa.

Psalm 23 — Bible Memory

 

IMG_1588Psalm 23 includes 6 verses about the Lord as our Good Shepherd. These are great for memorizing and for ministering to others facing difficult times or needing God’s direction. And our Mission-Minded Families Podcast on Psalm 23 is all about A Mom’s PASSION for God’s Word.


 

Psalm 23

Here are the links to the podcast episodes on PSALM 23
Mission-Minded Families with Ann Dunagan:


Plus, here is a YouTube video showing the Bible pictures for all of Psalm 23:

Daring Daughters: Help ENDIT!

February 25th, 2016.
— All over social media, you’ve probably noticed red-X images and photos of hands marked with permanent red Sharpies. Last night, our three teenagers came home from church with red-X’s marked on their hands. Friends on facebook and twitter have images of ENDIT and statistics of modern-day slavery all across their profiles.


So, as Daring Daughters, is this something we should participate in?

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Of course, we’re all totally against slavery and human trafficking, but as Christian mothers and leaders, we need to make sure we’re joining with something that’s okay to support. So, as a heads-up, here are some facts to get you in the loop.

  • The ENDIT movement is led by a Christian pastor, Louie Giglio.
  • The ENDIT movement was prominently featured at the mission conference, PASSION, with over 60,000 young Christians in the Georgia Dome.
  • Many prominent Christian leaders have shown their support for the ENDIT movement, including Beth Moore, Mark Dricoll, Chris Tomlin, and Kari Job.
  • The ENDIT Movement has been featured on The Christian Post, Charisma News, and also has a positive review on CNN.

As Daring Daughters, we need to DARE TO CRY for the needs of this world that grieve God’s heart. Human slavery, exploitation, and Human trafficking are issues that need our voice. In the famous Bible chapter about the virtuous women, Proverbs 31:8-9 tells us . . .

“Open your mouth for the speechless,
In the cause of all who are appointed to die.
Open your mouth, judge righteously,
And plead the cause of the poor and needy.”

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As Daring Daughters, let’s raise our voice and our hands. Let’s also learn from this great example of using creativity and contemporary social media to help expose a horrible need of modern-day slavery and to raise awareness.

Ladies, let’s DARE TO CRY and to pray . . . for this need.


 


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Adoption: Attachment and Love

Adoption with Sonya

Adoption with Sonya

A reader asks the following question:

We recently adopted a 3 1/2 year old girl. We would love to know if you have any information/literature recommendations on indiscriminate friendliness known as RAD. We are struggling with knowing how to best get our daughter to understand the concept of family and true attachment. Thank you. Julie


Building Attachment

Our first daughter that we adopted was a week from turning two when she first arrived. Aubrey was adopted through our local county social services. When we first met Aubrey she was like a bumble bee in flight. She would sit on my lap for a few seconds and then she was off again. Her life in foster care provided her with multiple care givers. She would be dropped off at daycare by her foster care parents and then if she had appointments or visits, she would be picked up by various social workers.

She had a beautiful smile, bright blue eyes, white blonde hair and a personality that was very charming. Aubrey would go up to anyone and everyone. Every woman that she would meet would become “mommy” and every man that she would meet would become “daddy.” If I turned my head for a moment in a parking lot, she would literally jump into a stranger’s van.

After several weeks of this, we realized that we needed to make some changes. Aubrey needed consistency in her life, no chaos, and an understanding of who “mommy” and “daddy” were. Since she was very small for her age, I carried her in a baby sling in the sitting position. After a few days of being held close, she never wanted to be put down. This was good because she started bonding.

To handle the indiscriminate friendliness towards others and to help in recognizing who “mommy” and “daddy” were, we kept her sheltered for the first few months. We only allowed a small handful of friends to come to the house to visit. We made sure that when they came that we did introductions immediately…

“This is Mrs. Smith. I am mommy. Can you say hello to Mrs. Smith?”

This continued until she understood who “mommy” really was. I stayed home from church for almost two months. We wanted her to understand who her new family was. It was a very overwhelming time for her. But in the end, all the hard work paid off.

Aubrey is now eleven years old and very attached.

We also noticed that Aubrey became over stimulated very easily.

As we discovered things that over stimulated her, we tried to avoid those stressors in our lives. We slowly re-introduced those stressors in a loving way, assuring her that we were there for her and every thing would be ok. It took time, but again, it paid off. Still to this day, she has issues with anxiety. We still work through this, but she is making progress with each passing day.


Handbook on Thriving as an Adoptive Family (by David and Renee Sanford) has a great list for helping to promote healthy attachment in adopted children.

This list was given for babies, but I feel it can be used with all ages with some alterations. (Suggestions in brackets are my thoughts and additions.) Skin-to-skin time. [For the toddler on up this would be snuggle time and daily hugs.]

Minimize stress or chaos in the home.

*Provide a calm and nurturing environment for the baby. [With the toddler on up this means that you need to slow way down. Don’t be in a rush to introduce your child to everyone in the neighborhood. All of the change is very overwhelming. Give your child a few months to get used to all of the changes in their life. Don’t be in quick to throw them into every extracurricular activity out there. Bonding needs to take place in the home first.]

*Be vigilant to follow through with promises or stated intentions as you build a relationship of trust and hope. [This is so important with the older child adoption. Trust has to be built. With trust comes hope and love.]

*Incorporate soft music, soft lights, and muted sounds in the home. [This helps to provide a calm atmosphere in the home. It helps to calm stressors.]

*Minimize the number of visitors coming to the home; while everyone is excited about your new baby [or child], you need time to bond and too many adults in the child’s life makes that process confusing. [This is so true! I have seen so many adopted parents who are so excited about their new addition that they literally take them out on the town and introduce them to the whole world! You really need to slow way down. Visitors need to be kept at a minimum.]

*Keep the child at home as much as possible, to make the schedule predictable and calm. [I highly recommend home schooling the older child for at least the first two years. Bonding is so vital especially at the older ages. It is so important to build relationships and for the child to truly understand who you are in his/her life.]

*Quantity of time does matter-it is important to spend a lot of time with your new baby or child. He or she needs you to be established as the primary caretaker in his or her life. [This is so vital! The child needs to learn who mommy and daddy are in his or her life. It is very confusing for the child. It is a lot of change in a short period of time. If you are a working mommy, I really think that it is important to figure out a way to be home with your child. They need you.]

*Begin to take on the role of protector and keep your child safe. Compare this to a child who has a disease with a suppressed immune system and you are trying to guard him from infection. You can do this by keeping him safe and protected, similar to protecting the emotional health of your new child. Be diligent in your efforts and you will reap the benefits of the attachment process.

*Pray and trust God to equip you with the wisdom you need to do what is best for your particular child. [Don’t put your child in a box. Each child in your home is a beautiful unique creation of God. What works with one child might not work with the other child. God will guide you and give you the wisdom that you need for your child. Trust in Him.]

*Realize that you are building the template for future relationships that the child will have. [It is so vital that the child learn to trust in you. Your child needs to understand what a healthy family relationship is. Also realize that your child’s emotional age and physical age are more than likely different.]

I encourage you as adoptive parents to listen to the wise words of James:

Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. (James 1:2-5 NASB)

You will experience trials with your adopted child, just as a person would with a biological child. It is how you choose to look at those trials and how you choose to respond to those trials that will make all of the difference in the world. Parenting is a long distance endurance marathon. God will walk along side you as you walk into unknown territories. He will give you wisdom, you just simply have to ask.

Keep pursuing your child’s heart just as God continues to pursue your heart. Be consistent and persistent. Always respond in love, not out of hurt. Be the loving parents that God called you to be. His love will radiate off of you and onto your child.

Lord, help me as a parent to always be willing to pursue my children’s hearts. Give me strength to endure during the hard times. Sometimes it is so hard to hear my child say that they don’t know if they love me. Help me not to hold that near to my heart, but to know that Your love never fails. Help me to always respond in love, even during the hard times, and not to respond out of my own fears and emotions. I know that there have been times when I have pushed You away, Lord, but You were persistent and consistent in pursing my heart and not giving up on me. Help me to always see the rose among the briers. I love You, Lord. Amen.

Resources:

Handbook of Thriving as an Adoptive Family
How We Love Our Kids
The Connected Child

Shining in an Upside-Down World

As women and girls, each of us have a unique sphere of influence. In this upside-down world, we are called to SHINE BRIGHTLY for Jesus Christ!

“You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:14-16 NKJV

“. . . these who have turned the world upside-down
have come here too . . .” Acts 17:6 NKJV

Even if you are a stay-at-home, homeschooling, homeworking mother, there are people who you come in contact with — perhaps on a daily, monthly, or seasonal basis — who need Jesus Christ. There are many ways that you can expand God’s kingdom and SHINE for JESUS, right from your home, through your life, your family, and especially your fervent prayers and Spirit-led obedience.

 

SHINING in your home

If you’re married, you have a husband to encourage and uplift (so he can fulfill God’s call on his life). If you’re a mom, you have children to train and prepare (so each one can fulfill God’s unique kingdom purposes). Never under-estimate the influence of a godly wife and mother; your impact can extend for generations. Your attitude often sets the tone for the home. Your spiritual life and daily faithfulness can be a testimony to many. Your words can speak death or LIFE, despair or HOPE, discouragement or ENCOURAGEMENT, and your prayers can make an eternal difference. The life of a godly mother is definitely counter-cultural. Just live as a happy mommy with a big smile on your face, and heads are going to turn. As a family, just SHINE bright and PRAY HARD for hearts to turn to JESUS!

 

SHINING for your Extended Family

You and your family are God’s ambassadors to your relatives and loved ones. Your life is an example and sometimes the details they notice are different than what you think. They don’t care so much about your clothing styles or modesty . . . as much as your smiles and your kindness. They don’t care so much about your furniture or homemaking expertise . . . as much as your greetings when they arrive at your door.

Years ago, I read a great article by Dean Sherman in a Last Days Ministries newsletter, called Pharisees, Sadducees, and Jesus.

  • The theme begins with a look at the legalistic Pharisees during the days of Jesus. Oh, they could make a “show” about following all the rules, but these leaders had no real relationship with God.
  • On the other end of the spectrum, the Sadducees were lawless and permissive. They didn’t believe in the resurrection and were super-lenient about sin. In Jesus’ day, these were the two sides of the aisle. In America today, we have our conservatives and liberals, our Republicans and Democrats; during the time of Christ, the leaders of Israel had their Pharisees and their Sadducees.
  • Yet, Jesus was totally different than either group. Jesus loved and obeyed every aspect of God’s holy law, yet prostitutes and tax collectors enjoyed His presence. Jesus was full of life and love; yet His convictions were never compromised. He was (and is) amazing.

Today, Jesus lives in you and in your family. As Christians, we should be “different” from the world, yet our lives should convey a relevance that exudes LIFE and a contagious joy! As ambassadors for Christ, you are called to represent Him wherever you go — at family reunions, Christmastime, graduation ceremonies, birthday parties, weddings, and funerals.  If you have relatives who doesn’t know Jesus, you are called to be their missionaries. You could be the only true representatives for the Lord that some people will ever come in contact with. Your family has God’s Word and God’s life and God will give you His wisdom. Your presence can (and should) bring God’s presence.

SHINING in your Community

Surrounding your home are people who need Jesus. There are people who work in the grocery stores you frequent. There are attendants who sell you gasoline.

Even if you live in a remote area of the country, you have neighbors . . . local children, teenagers, young married couples, and families. Maybe there are elderly people in your community who need help in their yard . . . or new immigrants or foreign exchange students who are lonely. Perhaps you have interests or hobbies you enjoy . . . and people you connect with in those activities. There are people who deliver your mail . . . and UPS packages . . . and from the looks of those things you order, these delivery people will likely guess (before too long) that you’re a Christian; and they’ll be watching you.

Over the years, our family has had a great time organizing many LOCAL OUTREACH events to REACH OUT to our community.
In addition to being “on-call” at all times to share the Gospel, we’ve enjoyed scheduled times, especially around seasonal holidays, to witness and to show the love of Jesus. Sometimes we’ve done random “acts of kindness”  (like sweeping sidewalks, picking up garbage, cleaning parks, or giving away free hot cocoa). Other times, the focus has been specifically evangelistic. For our family, it’s been a great way to get outside of our “Christian-bubble” and to put real-life faces to “the lost” we’re praying for.

Wherever you are, just SHINE for Jesus, and simply obey each little “prompting” in your heart to step out and to share love and God’s Word. Stir your heart with God’s passion for the lost and begin to care more for the eternal destinies of acquaintances and relatives than trying to impress them. Live to please God, not people.

 

SHINING on the Internet

If you’re reading this on your computer, you also have an ability to influence others through online networking. As women of God, we need to establish safeguards (in both our use of time and in appropriate accountability), but over the past several years I have found online social networking to be incredibly effective . . . not only in our ministry to Christian families and to missionaries throughout the world, but also to our extended family and relatives. I can easily connect with a distant niece or a backsliden young adult . . . and he or she can simply begin to watch our family do life . . . and see the difference.

I can radiate God’s life in a dark world. With a little click I can link to a powerful prolife video or a simple Gospel presentation. I can post status updates about things I’m passionate about, like loving orphans or motivating families for world missions and share quick testimonies about the awesome goodness of God. I can even post links and updates about going to church, and this news (along with the direct church link) can “pop-up” directly on my unbelieving friend’s facebook wall.

The possibilities are really amazing. Sometimes it can seem nearly impossible to invite an unsaved neighbor or relative to church, but if we connect through the internet, the “door” to your church website or to a message of God’s salvation can be only one click away . . . directly from a place they already frequent (their facebook wall). I can live God loudly and influence many, even without leaving my home. I’ve learned how to make YouTube videos, how to use Twitter, and how to write blog articles. Just today, I had a deep discussion with a Mormon woman who was searching for the truth. Through blog comments, we “talked” back-and-forth about faith and self-efforts . . . the blood of Jesus and the Cross . . .and what it really means to have a living and vibrant relationship with Jesus.

 

SHINING in the World (Who is our neighbor?)

As Christians, we’re also called to be a light for Jesus in this world.

Hudson Taylor said,
“The Great Commission is not an option to consider;
it is a command to obey.”

My husband Jon and I often say,
“Missions is not just for missionaries;
God’s call is for all.”


Every Christian, and every Christian family is called to be a part of God’s global mission.
You might not be called the “front-lines” in remote geographical areas (although you might! — our family sure is!), you are called to help expand God’s kingdom in whatever “sphere of influence” God has placed you. Allow God to expand your heart for others and to expand your spheres, beginning with specific areas of COMPASSION that God has placed on your heart. Do you care for unborn babies? Do you care for lonely families? Do you care for abused young women? Do you care for children? Do you care for a specific nation or people group, or for people who have never heard the Gospel of Jesus Christ?

In closing, I want to share a short teaching (my son actually made this video for me) about how we as Christians are called to “Turn the World Upside-Down!” Sometimes, I don’t think we don’t take time to pray for the lost, or to share our faith, or even to care . . . because we don’t realize how eternally important this really is. In reality, it’s big, with bigger ramifications than any of us can imagine. It’s about light and darkness, good and evil, heaven and hell.

Let’s SHINE brightly for Jesus . . . in every sphere of our influence . . . and with God’s help, let’s start turning this world upside-down (so it’s right-side up!).

(video) Life in the Womb

Christi Childs

Christi Childs

Here is an incredibly interesting video about life in the womb. It is a presentation by a scientist (not just a preacher) and while it is a little lengthy, it is so interesting.

Please take 10 minutes out of your day to watch:

Conception to Birth — Visualized — Alexander Tsiaras:
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We’re women who care about the next generation!

At Daring Daughters, our passion is to inspire women of all ages for local and global missions. We have a heart for God’s Great Commandment and God’s Great Commission. We love God, we love others, and by His grace, we DARE to OBEY.

As God-loving women, we want to glorify God’s Name, wherever He calls us — reaching the neighbors next-door or the nations across the globe (along with the children entrusted to our care, right in our own homes!).

Break my heart for what breaks Yours. 
Everything I am for Your kingdom’s cause.
Show me how to love like You have loved me.

Our hearts beat for God’s purposes and they “break” for the evils and injustices of our world. And we DARE to pray and to ask God how we can help.

  • As mothers (and as mentors), we want to seek God fervently, with our lives and our families in God’s daily divine balance. We want to effectively train our daughters (and all of our children) to love the Lord and to glorify Him. At the same time, we long to be examples of God’s mercy and compassion.
  • As daughters (and girls of this generation), we want to prepare for our future, while fully embracing and enjoying this season. We want to live with a biblical, self-sacrificing perspective, that’s so different than today’s selfish, humanistic mindset. We choose to worship God and to enjoy Him forever . . . and somehow, we also want to shine for Jesus in our dark and hurting world.


We’re bringing the generations together . . .

As Director of Daring Daughters, I welcome you to JOIN us! I’m Ann Dunagan, director of Daring Daughters, and I’m excited about what God is doing and who He is bringing together. (Meet our contributing mentors!)

We have a vision for women, especially mothers and daughters, who desire to fervently seek God’s purposes. We see the generations coming together — with the spiritual wisdom and perspective of motherhood combined with the creative zeal of youth. We envision the potential in many mother-daughter-teams and mentor-groups . . . and pray for God’s kingdom to come!

Together, as we fervently seek the Lord and His purposes, God can give us His fresh perspective for living with wholehearted devotion and day-by-day purity. Instead of merely “fulfilling responsibilities” and “following rules” we want to live with a higher vision. We want God to mold us — from the inside out — and to train us for His leadership and service. We surrender everything to Him and allow Him to work through us, however He desires, whether His plans are adventurous and big, or simple and small.

As moms and daughters, we seize each day, while preparing for the future and investing in eternity. We’re embracing the here-and-now to obey God with both radical obedience and daily faithfulness.

  • As mothers, (and as mentors) we’re reaching up to God, to magnify Him and to let our hearts begin to dream again, as in the days of our youth.
  • As daughters, (and as girls of the next generation) we’re ready to learn . . . and to step up to God’s calling for the days to come!


We’re all Daring Daughters . . . who DARE to obey God!

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Weep for the Persecuted

DD-persecuted-box“Rejoice with those who rejoice, and
weep with those who weep.”
Romans 12:15

Daring Daughters, we need to remember the persecuted church around the world. Our precious sisters and brothers in Jesus need our prayers and our concern. We need to be willing to care and even to cry.

Pray for the Persecuted

Ann Dunagan

Ann Dunagan

Here’s a focus on world persecution in the context of a story from my kitchen and my kids. –Ann

“Hey, that’s not fair! You already got one-and-a-half more pieces than me!” Our daughter gave our son a selfish glare, as he proceeded to “stake his claim” by grabbing for the butter and syrup.

As I was working on yet another batch of French toast, I realized our kids definitely needed more than food on their plates. Our family needed a fresh lesson in thankfulness and gratitude. The petty bickering was really bothering me, especially in light of several stories I had read only a few hours earlier.

So, while the kids sat on their stools at our kitchen counter, waiting (not so patiently) for our next round of French toast, I proceeded to give a lesson: “You know, kids, we need to be thankful for what we have, and realize that we have been given so much! Instead of complaining, God wants us to continually live with an attitude of thankfulness and joy.”

“In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” –I Thessalonians 5:18

Note: We don’t have to be thankful for everything (as some temptations and attacks are clearly from the enemy). However, in everything and every situation, we can be thankful and full of praise. God is still on the throne. He is God and He is still worthy of our worship (even at this moment). We can always find something to be thankful for, even for grace to withstand the challenge. When situations are tough, we can choose to WORSHIP, no matter what. And here’s a specific phrase I often think about when I am feeling distressed or discouraged (and tempted to worry or fear): “God is worthy of my brain-space!”

LINK to The Voice of the Martrys website

LINK to The Voice of the Martrys website

Let’s Remember the Persecuted Church
Just that morning, I had been reading a Voice of the Martyrs magazine, about how a minister named Richard Wurmbrand had endured persecution while being imprisoned for his faith. He had spent over 14 years in Romanian prisons, including long periods in complete solitude – with no Bible, no books, no scrap paper or pencils, and (obviously) no one to talk to. Even during this horrible time, this man still found ways to be grateful.

The article shared how Rev. Wurmbrand meditated on Scripture he had memorized, and how he (along with other Christian prisoners) kept his mind active by praying fervently throughout the night for various needs from around the world. Yet the example that most-deeply touched my heart was reading about how this man of God learned to rejoice.

For a moment, I put down my spatula and reached for the magazine lying on the counter. “Just listen to this guy’s attitude,” I told my kids. “This man found reasons to be grateful, even in prison, and even when there was absolutely nothing to be thankful for:

“The Bible tells us about one of the great joys we can have,” Rev. Wurmbrand explains, “even in a prison cell: ‘Rejoice with those who rejoice’ (Romans 12:15). I rejoiced that there were families somewhere who gathered with their children, read the Bible together, told jokes, and were happy with each other. Somewhere there was a boy who loved a young girl and dated her; I could be happy about them. There they had a prayer meeting; and there was someone who studied; and there is somebody who enjoyed good food, etc. We could rejoice with those who rejoiced.”

– Quote by Richard Wurmbrand, Founder of The Voice of the Martyrs – (Excerpted from The Triumphant Church, pp.32-33).

 

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Let’s Be Thankful (even when times are tough)
We need to have hearts of gratitude, which means being thankful for even little things that we usually take for granted.

I asked my kids, “When was the last time you were grateful for your toothbrush or toothpaste . . . or for your teeth? Or when was the last time you were thankful for hot running water, or a good toilet?”

That morning, I was also inspired by three examples I had read in a little booklet about gratitude, and my kids heard about these as well:

Back in the 19th Century, a well-known commentator named Matthew Henry was robbed. Yet even in the midst of a terrible circumstance, this man found ways to be grateful. Just listen to this attitude, as written in Henry’s journal:

“Let me be thankful, first, because I was never robbed before; second, because although they took my purse, they did not take my life; third, because, although they took my all, it was not much; and fourth, because it was I who was robbed, not I who robbed!”

David Brainerd, a devoted missionary to the Native American people, was characterized by a thankful spirit. Even when he had a high fever and great pain, he was thankful that this challenge had come when he was among friends; when he ill and alone in his little hut, he thanked God saying, “Blessed be the Lord, I am not exposed in the open air . . . ”; and in another instance, facing weeks of outdoor solitude, forging through swamps, and enduring dark nights, he thanked God that his loneliness “drove him to experience intimate fellowship with the Lord . . . ”

And if you remember Disney’s classic film, Pollyanna, the story of a missionary orphan who goes to live with a difficult aunt. This sweet-natured girl brings joy to the entire town by looking on the bright side of things, an attitude she calls her “Glad Game,” even in the midst of challenges.

(Examples adapted from The Attitude of Gratitude, by Nancy Leigh DeMoss).

By the time the kids had a fresh plate of French toast, they also had a quick lesson in gratitude, and I was feeling better as a mom.

Proverbs 22:6 tells us, “Train up a child in the way he should go”; and in Deuteronomy 6:7, “You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.

Later, our son came up to me and asked for forgiveness for his attitude; and I could tell he was truly sorry. And our daughter, who just moments ago listened to me read this article, asked me to please tell those of you reading this that she already said she was sorry, and that she’s thankful . . . but actually, her brother was the one who started it.


Bella’s Favorite Books — (Human Trafficking Awareness for Girls)

carlyn-bellaMy 12-year-old daughter Bella is a beautiful inspiration of faith-filled obedience, coupled with a sincere joy in the Lord. God has given her a heart for children, particularly orphans and abandoned children on the streets in India.

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Here are two mission books Bella recommends:
Both share missionary stories about rescuing children (Human trafficking awareness)

a-cry-from-the-streetsINTERNATIONAL ADVENTURES SERIES
A Cry From The Streets: Rescuing Brazil’s Forgotten Children
By Jeannette Lukasse

In the dark world of the Brazilian streets, children, toddlers and teenagers search trash cans for food, steal knives to protect themselves at night, and live in fear of being beaten or even killed by the police. For these desperately needy children, nothing was free – until they encountered the love of Jesus through the compassion of Jeannette and Johan Lukasse.

When this young Dutch couple asked God if He could use them to do something about the immense suffering they saw in the world, He led them on a winding path from their home in the Netherlands to the coast of Greece and eventually to the streets of Belo Horizonte, Brazil. Their calling was clear: millions of orphaned and abandoned children were living and dying on the streets, caught in the deadly grip of drugs, violence, prostitution, and abuse.

What followed the Lukasses’ step of faith is a stunning example of how God miraculously uses the surrendered lives of believers to transform the lives of others with His hope and healing.

Pages: 224 (paperback)
Ages: 14+


amy-carmichael-rescuer-of-precious-gemsCHRISTIAN HEROES: THEN & NOW

Amy Carmichael: Rescuer of Precious Gems
By Janet and Geoff Benge

Amy Carmichael stood on the deck of the steamer, waving good-bye once again to her old friend Robert Wilson. How could she have known she would never see him or the British Isles again? Amy was certain God had called her to India. Indeed! India would be her home for the rest of her life.

Amy Carmichael’s life was one of simple, determined obedience to God, regardless of the consequences. Her service in India is a vivid example of the impact one person who will fear God and nothing else can have. Driven by love, sustained by faith and determination, this young woman from Northern Ireland defied the cruel barriers of India’s caste system (1867-1951).

This best-selling, missionary biography series – Christian Heroes: Then & Now – chronicles the exciting, challenging, and deeply touching true stories of ordinary men and women whose trust in God accomplished extraordinary exploits for His kingdom and glory.

Pages: 208 (paperback)
Ages: 10+


 


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Meet Bella: 12-years-old and a Passion for Missions

carlyn-bellaToday’s Daring Daughter interview is with Carlyn Albers and her 12-year-old daughter Bella. These lovely ladies have fervent hearts for world missions and especially for the needs of Human Trafficking Awareness. In this interview, Bella shares about her love for Jesus and India as she highlights two favorite books. Carlyn shares from a mom’s perspective about “releasing” her daughter to God.


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Blog post about Bella’s Recommended Books
More on Daring Daughters about Carlyn Albers and her family
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Carlyn and Bella and their family at a 5K Fun Run for Human Trafficking Awareness


Carlyn and Bella with the family at a Yard Sale to help Rapha House


 

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